“Achievement of an action within a specified period of time or within a specified parameter”
Success can also mean completing an objective or reaching a goal. Success can be expanded to encompass an entire project or be restricted to a single component of a project or task. It can be achieved within the workplace, or in an individual’s personal life. In here, I hope to consider about the 10 values that drive your personal life in the way of success. That is called as “Super 10 V’s of K”. It is not easy to succeed your personal life. One day you will realize the effort will not be a waste.
1. Identify the passion
Before you can achieve success, you will have to define what success means to you. While it may take years to realize what you want to do with your life, identifying your passions, interests and values will help you to set goals and give your life a sense of meaning. Because everyone in the world has their own way to do something. Without knowing that, anyone cannot succeed their life easily. If he or she does not have a particular strength, no one else is going to use those strengths to succeed in their life.
2. Set goals
Make a list of your goals, and what you might do to achieve them. Be sure to address both short-term and long-term goals in your personal life.In order to achieve your dreams and be the person you wanted to be, you will have to start paying attention to your actions. Ask from yourself, such as “Does this lead me to where I wanted to be in life?” If you find yourself constantly bored, daydreaming about the future or past or counting down the minutes until the day ends, it is probably because you feel disconnected from what you’re doing. So, make stable goals in your personal life to motivate & encourage every minute of yourself.
3. Do things at the correct time
Putting off the important tasks until the last minute can cause you unnecessary stress and increase the likelihood of errors. Manage your time so that you have enough time to complete a task effectively. Use a paper or electronic planner to help and keep you organized throughout the day, week and month. Make a list of all the things you need to do in a given day and check off each task as you complete it. This will help you to stay organized, motivated & avoid from unexpected errors.
4. Tendency to compare
Don’t compare your own life to other peoples’ lives. Unfortunately, many people measure their own success by comparing it to the success of those who are around them. If you want to feel accomplished and happy, you will have to stop comparing your life to other peoples’ lives.Many people have the tendency to compare the low points of their own lives with the high points of other peoples’ lives. Remember not to compare yourself with others, but compare your success within the time period & if there are any weaknesses or spaces, find a way to fill that space or overcome that weakness. That is the best way to success your life in the today’s context.
5. Stop procrastinating
Don’t keep on telling yourself that you will go back to university next week or that you’ll study tomorrow or that you’ll apply for that job next week. Putting things off is a sure-fire way to make sure things don’t get done or get done poorly. Tackle problems and tasks early, to give yourself more time to do them properly and excel at what you do. So, do the works in the day which you should do that.
6. Develop the skills
Study hard at young age and then spend the rest of your life dedicated to become better and better in whatever you do. Being good at what you do is the surest way to succeed and create circumstances in which you can succeed your life. Take extra classes and training once you’ve settled into a career to refresh your skills and to learn the latest techniques and practices. While you develop the skills, take care of your attitudes on the other hand. You have the responsibility to balance your life when you are growing with your age, skills & knowledge
7. Be good for followers
Sometimes it’s hard to see while being kind and helpful to others also helps us. But in helping others, we not only create a sense of deep personal fulfillment, but we also ensure that other people want to help us. You will be surprised to see that how willingly the people will help you when you are widely known as a good, helpful and self-sacrificing person. From that you can add lots of happiness to your life & always be fresh, because you tend to become a valuable personality to others.
8. Positive minded
Thinking positively makes a huge sense to your life rather than you think about it. You should, of course, always hope for the best. You should expect that wonderful things will happen to you because they often will. However, you also need to work hard willingly for good things and plan ahead of the ways on how you will deal with hardships or plans which might go wrong. There is nothing wrong with being prepared for bad things. It will simply make you better by being able to handle situations that arise.
9. Build up connections
Networking is a great way to move yourself up in the world and get the things you want in your life. Make lots of friends. Meet people that are in well-placed positions of the environments where you would like to work. Show everyone you meet about how hard you work and how good you are with others. Show them the incredible skills you’ve built. Everyone will be itching to recommend you when they see opportunities crop up. One day you will realize that most of the helpful situations are done through better relationships not only by yourself alone.
10. Stop blaming others
It really doesn’t make a difference if the problems in your life were caused by someone else. It really doesn’t matter if the circumstances in your life make it difficult or almost impossible for you to succeed. You are the only person whom you can rely on to fix your problems. If you want things to be better, you have to make them better. Try to admire the talents of others, the victory of others & all the good things are carried out by others. Try to overcome third party influences by planning your life better than others with the help of nine values which I have mentioned above. So in future, there are no reasons resting in the hand of yours to blame others, because you are developing your success day by day as a result.